Wannabe

 The person with core confidence knows two things; they have value to give and they´ll be fine if that value is not accepted.

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  What I mean when I say this is a Narcissist’s relationship with another person—whether it be a girlfriend, a child, a sister, or a parent—is one of the many tools in a toolbox that he can employ to facilitate his self-esteem. What’s more, his relationship with you is only as good as the next fluctuation in his self-esteem. https://www.quora.com/What-is-going-through-the-mind-of-a-narcissist-when-they-seek-a-new-relationship-Are-they-looking-for-a-genuine-relationship-or-is-it-a-conscious-thought-process-even-in-the-beginning-that-they-are-actually-seeking http://www.elinorgreenberg.com/
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Algunas verdades

GRACIAS, de verdad gracias.  No sé si se entenderá pero te explico un poco... ¿Sabes? Es qué no puedo ser tu amiga porque nunca fuimos amigos. Porque siempre que me sentí vulnerable contigo me dolió más serlo porque era juzgado y la soledad asociada, algo que no sentía habitualmente con la gente que me rodeaba (excepto mi familia).   En mi experiencia la vulnerabilidad lleva a intimidad emocional, no a sentires tóxicos y de vergüenza.  Nunca lo dije cuando conversamos, la vida no es tan extraña después de todo. Cada vez que tu dices que soy "la única que no has querido eliminar de tu vida", mi ego se infla (ese sentir de validación -"soy especial") y no decía nada porque mi ego quería seguir escuchando que "soy la única persona con la que estuviste que quieres mantener en tu vida", pero en mi cabeza solía pensar "esta es definitivamente la relación más tóxica que he tenido". No quería decirlo porque pensaba que eso iba a romper un poco tu sentir ...
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Daring greatly

  “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.” ―  Theodore Roosevelt
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